There will be traffic. For real, there is traffic ALL THE TIME. Ask anyone about their first impression of the area and they talk about the traffic. But here’s the thing, you get used to it. For me it took a couple years, but I did and found ways around it. Regardless of how close a playdate or activity may seem, give yourself an hour. I’m not kidding, it could be three miles away and take close to 45 minutes. It helps to avoid rush hour, which around here is like 6 hours. That means roughly 6:30-9:30 am, and 3:30-6:30 pm.
2. Number two kind of goes with number one, but it is to make the WAZE app your best friend. Download it now onto your phone and never leave home without it. If you have never used it, I swear it is genious. It is like a crowd sourced, real time traffic, program to give you directions to your destination. There will be several route options, toll options, time estimates, accident updates, pretty much everything you could think of. So go download it now, and start using it!
3. There is so much history around that it is almost hard to not see a historical marker on a drive or hike. We are so fortunate to live in a state that has places such as Old Town Alexandria, Mt. Vernon, Fredericksburg, and Manassas just to name a few. There are tons of great sites and attractions in these locations, but a quick tour of any local area will leave you with a history lesson and probably an opportunity to walk where George Washington may have been. Case in point, our first rental house in Lorton was across the street from the Pohick Church where George Washington used to attend services. How cool!
4. There will be allergies, and lots of them. Even if you are someone who has never suffered, I would say start the allergy medicine and buy some tissues. Some people say you get a free pass your first year here, but everyone I know seems to be pretty miserable at various points throughout the year. The glass half full take on this is that Virginia is beautiful and so many flowers, trees and shrubs bloom with the most amazing vibrant colors so get your cameras ready.
5. You would be hard pressed to find a more patriotic place to live in the country. Everywhere you turn there are reminders of our brave men and women who protect our country. Flags fly proudly all year long, not just on holidays. Our children recognize the fact that freedom often comes at the price of a deployed parent, and are proud to talk about their service member parent. Odds are if you aren’t connected to the military, then your neighbors are and you will be there for them at the drop of a hat.
6. There is an endless variety of activities to have your children try. Now sometimes it’s nice to not have a crazy schedule, I’m the first to admit that. But it’s also great to know that if your child asks to try gymnastics, or soccer, or horseback riding, that a quick Google search can locate an option that won’t be too far away (use WAZE!)
7. The schools are pretty great. They can be big, sometimes huge, but are pretty great. When looking for a home near a great school, make sure to check the Virginia Department of Education site. You are looking for the school report card section. This quick fact sheet on each school will give you some important information when trying to figure out where you want your children to attend school.
8. There are wineries. Lots of them. And there are wineries that are kid and dog friendly. Now that’s a pretty awesome combination if you ask me. One of my favorites is Barrel Oak Winery. It is a pretty quick hour drive that makes you really feel like you are out in the country and can escape the hustle and bustle. Ask for the kid scavenger hunt when you get there, this will keep the kids busy for a while. There is plenty of space for the kids and dogs to stretch out, make noise, eat food, and overall have a great time.
9. You will never have to pay for a museum visit if you don’t want to. I didn’t realize how amazing this perk was until we visited Chicago and had to pay an arm and a leg to get into a pretty great museum. That’s because we are totally spoiled with the Smithsonian Institute Museums. There are so many options, events and exhibits that you could live here for years and still go experience something new each time. You do have to plan whether you will drive or metro into the city. That’s a whole other topic, but weigh the options to see what would be best for your family.
10. There are lots of ways to connect with other mom’s, but you do need to put yourself out there. I wasn’t so great at this 10 years ago. But I’ve become better now that I have three kids, a husband that travels, and a dog and cat to take care of. I really can’t do it all, believe me I try. But I need my mom’s, even if its just for a quick chat at the bus stop. So try to figure out one way you can connect, and come back to read some surefire ways you can start to grow your tribe.